Here are the lyrics to a favorite song of mine. It is the woman we should be even when our buttons are "PUSHED..." Simply this is how love 'acts' ...PUSH by Sarah McLachlan
"Every time I look at you the world just melts away, All my troubles all my fears dissolve in your affections, You've seen me at my weakest but you take me as I am...
And when I fall you offer me a softer place to land. You stay the course~you hold the line~you keep it all together, You're the one true thing I know I can believe in. You're all the things that I desire, you save me, you complete me, You're the one true thing I know I can believe. I get mad so easy but you give me room to breathe. No matter what I say or do cause you're too good to fight about it, Even when I have to push just to see how far you'll go, You won't stoop down to battle but you never turn to go....you pick me up & brush me off and tell me I'm OK, [and] sometimes thats just what we need to get us through the day"
Thanks for considering this kind of patience in how you respond in your own lives.~Ms. L.